And here we have what jumped out at me:
4. They take control of their lives. (Self-Efficacy)
“Become major, Paul. Live like a hero. That’s what the classics teach us. Be a main character. Otherwise what is life for?” – J.M. Coetzee
You can’t waste time waiting for permission from an imaginary, all-knowing mentor to tell you exactly what you need to do with your life. No one in this world is now, or will ever be qualified enough. If you want to get your novel(s) published, you need to be the one who gets things moving.
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Author P.S. Bartlett 
This was great motivation, some nice non-scary help! Thanks!
I totally agree! I had to share it! Thank you for the comment!
Hey Ms. Bartlett – I am absolutely HONOURED to be featured here on your website, thank you so much! I’m excited to have discovered you and your books now as well. Thanks again!
The honor is all mine Stephanie. Your article was just too brilliant not to share.